I must vent

but only for a brief moment. 

let me first point out that this isn't something that just happened once

but it has taken me this long for it to really bother me. sigh.

 It seems that everywhere I go, especially with my kids-

 I get these looks.

 you know, the kind where you know what people are thinking

 and they aren't thinking nice things. 

 well I have come to figure out that the people who act

 upon what they are thinking by saying so

 fill me in on what the others keep to themselves. 

 and I think its ridiculous.

 "You don't look old enough to have kids!"

 well who the hell asked you?

 really. 

 I find it a bit disheartening that people can be so judgemental 

 and so rude to assume my age and believe I'm too young to have my own kids.

 I am old enough (even if I had my daughter at 18).

 I'm a responsible adult,  and on top of that, a loving and nurturing mother-

 more than I could probably say about any of those "thinkers"

 so yeah, I suppose it's a good thing that I don't look my age-

 that in fact these people think I am younger than my actual age of 23, almost 24.

 but give me a flippin break-

 I don't mind those who ask me and are genuine about it, 

but the women who ask me with a dirty look on their face, 

 like I'm this 16 year old girl who doesn't have a clue-

 those are the one's who can shove it.

   

 now, I am done. 

thank you for letting me vent <3

 and most importantly-

thanks for listening!

I'll be posting about the new Parenthood episode tonight, 

eep- I'm so excited I can hardly sit still.

&I will be posting pictures from our yummy dinner.